umm...why would u wanna swallow the cum when u giv head?? i think taht is just really sick. i don't think i can do it to my bf. and im not sure wat he wants me to do. i hav also heard that u can get hiv or usmthin from swallowing cum or can get a STD. is this true? and wats sooo great bout swallowing cum from a guy? i would rather just giv head and use a condom. that way i dotn hav to taste it or nething. wat would b best? o im 13/f (and not a slut. im a virgin and ive never gave head and ive been wit my bf for 3 years!!) You can get an STD whether or not you swallow the cum - if no condom is used. Before a guy comes, there is precum and that would carry any infection...as would any open sores or cuts on his penis.
It's smart to use a condom, and it's great that you are making your mind up about sexual things before you are in a position where you might have to just jump to a quick decision. It's always best to figure out how you really feel and then stick to it.
Your feelings might change, or they might not, but the important thing is that you are true to yourself.
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