gay! I am 14yr.s old a freshmen, confused on what my sexuality is. People says I'm gay, but I still think girls are cute, but I would
rather go with a boy. So what am I!?! Need answers...
Why worry so much about labels?
When it comes down to it, you aren't going to fall in love with another label. You're going to date someone who makes you laugh, lets you cry, and that you are attracted to in every way.
Whether that person has a vagina or a penis is immaterial.
I do understand that it's important to feel like you need a label, so I'd say this: we are conditioned from birth to date people of the opposite gender. That means you have been told a million subtle ways that you should be with a girl.
Many people initially come out as bisexual because they mistakenly think they still have feelings for the opposite gender, when in fact it's just a sort of cultural conditioning. The older you get and the more experiences you have, the better you'll understand your sexuality.
In the meantime, try to relax about it a little. Think about which label feels best to you right now - if you have to have a label, better to pick it yourself than let others do it for you. Saying you are one or the other right now doesn't mean you are locked into that category for life - sexuality is confusing and develops over the course of growing up; you'll find your place where you feel most comfortable and happy in time.
Good luck.