PLEASE HELP ME!!!! There is this guy that has told me he really liked me a lot, which was a total shock. I really like him as well. We like the same kind of things and have the same morals. We flirt, talk, and hang out a lot. The more we hang out the stronger my feelings become. He tells me the same thing too.
Online he told me that he wants to ask me to be his girlfriend. But he wants to do it in person because he feels it means and shows more. I totally agree with that. I think this guy is awesome. Every time we hang out, I just know he wants to ask me out, but is feeling nervous.
I'm not a shy person at all, and I feel really open around him, but I wouldn't want to ask him out. It's been about 2 weeks and he still hasn't asked yet. What can I do/say to make him feel more comfortable asking me or give him that perfect chance? Please email me back soon, I'm so lost.
signed,
Impatient
Okay. The obvious solution seems to be the internet. He's comfortable telling you how he feels on there, and it seems to be a place you can really talk about your feelings.
You don't have to be the one to ask him out (though why not? It's a new millenia! Rock the house down, girlies!!) in order to let him know that you definitely want to be asked out.
A simple, 'You know how you wanted to ask me out? If you asked, I'd say yes,' might do the trick. I really do think that this guy will ask you out if you give him time; he just sounds shy. The only way to hurry the process along is to reassure him that you really do like him.
So, ask him, tell him to ask you, or wait. Those are the three options, and I think letting him know your answer might make him more likely to ask the question.
Best of luck! It sounds like you two have a lot in common.