I have never had sex before and i have only "attempted" to masturbate around twice before. I just gave up. I really do not hope that sex will feel this way. Whats wrong with me.
Im only sixteen, never had sex and when i tried to masturbate i couldnt feel anything and i dont want to hurt myself. And when i did attempt to masturbate i started to bleed a little and i still could feel anything.
I guess my question is, "is this normal and when i do have sex will i be able to enjoy it?"
Thanks for your time!!
It's very normal for sex OR masturbation to take some time to get used to - and by this I mean that it can take awhile to figure out what feels good to your body.
First, don't masturbate just for the sake of masturbating - if you do it when you feel aroused, you're more likely to enjoy it. If you're just trying it but don't feel any particularl urge, your body may not respond.
Next, perhaps your technique isn't the right one for you. Many, many women cannot orgasm through penetration - experiment with the area on the outside, rather than just putting fingers on the inside. The clitoris is often called the 'hot button' for sexual pleasure; it's actually the only body part (male or female) designed exclusively for pleasure.
You can find this by feeling for a small knot of flesh above the entrance to the vagina - it's about an inch in front of it. This is a sensitive area and it may take some time to figure out what works for you, but chances are you'll find this a more rewarding area to test out.
The bleeding could have happened if you tore any remaining part of your hymen, or if you caught a fingernail in the skin in your vagina. Either way, this won't do any long-lasting damage.
This in no way means you won't be able to enjoy sex whenever you have it - if anything, it's giving you a lesson in what pleases you that you'll be able to share with a partner in the future.
Best of luck.