we did stop talkin for a lil while cuz something was wrong with his phone....but when he finally fixed his phone he started slowly acting different....
he doesnt say so many sweet things to me no more and he dont talk as much as we used to....and when he does talk its mostly about sex....i dont know wat this means....but i need some advice from you or what you think about it.
Well, when people first get together they're usually in a kind of honeymoon phase. This is the racing pulse, always excited, want-to-spend-a-lot-of-time-with-the-person phase. At this stage, people aren't being fully themselves, as they are still in an introduction mode. They want to put their best face forward, and they only want to see good in their partner.
Beyond that, everything is so new that anything that might grate on someone's nerves hasn't been around long enough to do so. It's not that people are wearing masks. They are being themselves - just not all of themselves.
As a history is built up, there may be expectations about sex, faithfulness, and the future that the two people clash over. There are also tiny hurts (or big ones!) and those can stay in the memory a long time. People also begin to relax and show their true selves.
It sounds as if your boyfriend is interested in sex, and is sounding you out to see if you are as well. If all he is talking about is sex that's a bit of a worry - because without everything else in a relationship, sex alone can't make it long-lasting, solid, or fulfilling.
You might want to try talking to your boyfriend about how you feel. You also might want to plan some fun dates that involve things other than sex, just to see how compatible you really are when you're doing things that are related to your personalities, rather than just your bodies.
At the end of the day, only you know if the relationship still feels worthwhile to you. Many, many people stay in relationships remembering how good it was at the beginning - and then spending months or years trying to recapture that initial magic.
Ultimately, relationships don't work that way. Some of the honeymoon magic wears off, and in strong relationships other things replace it - compatibility, trust, genuine love, humour, warmth.
Have a think about how you feel about your relationship NOW, not how it was then. Are you satified with it? If not, is there a possibility for change?
Best of luck.